Wedding Registry for Newly Engaged Couples

Hey there, lovebirds! If you’re reading this, chances are you’re knee-deep in wedding planning, and somewhere between picking the perfect floral arrangements and debating whether or not to invite your distant cousin’s plus-one, you’ve realized, oh yeah, we need a wedding registry!

As a wedding venue that’s hosted hundreds of “I do’s,” we’ve seen it all when it comes to gifts. From the timeless classics to the “uhhh… what is that?” surprises, we’re here to help you build a registry that’s useful, fun, and stress-free. 

1. Think Beyond the Toaster

Sure, toasters are great. But let’s be real, how many slices of toast are you eating daily? While traditional gifts like kitchen appliances and fancy dishware are still great, modern registries allow for so much more. Consider experiences like a cooking class for two, a couples’ spa day, or even a honeymoon fund, because the post-wedding getaway is just as exciting as the wedding itself!

2. Make It About You (Not Just Your Home)

Yes, registries have historically been about setting up a household, but think about what truly makes you both happy. Do you love hiking? Register for high-quality camping gear. Big into wine? Ask for a wine subscription or a set of personalized glasses. Love hosting? A stylish bar cart might be the perfect addition to your home.

3. Mix Up the Price Points

Your guests will appreciate having a range of options to choose from. While some people love splurging on a big-ticket item, others may be looking for a budget-friendly gift. Include a mix of gifts at different price points so that everyone can feel comfortable contributing in a way that works for them.

4. Don't Forget Group Gifting

Some of your friends and family might want to chip in together on a bigger gift, like a fancy espresso machine or a cool new piece of furniture. Many registry sites allow for group gifting, which means multiple people can contribute to one item. It’s a great way to make those dream gifts a reality without putting the burden on one guest.

5. Cash Is Not Tacky 

Look, we get it. Asking for cash used to feel a little awkward, but times have changed. Many couples prefer money towards experiences, a down payment on a house, or even just a financial cushion as they start their married life. If you go this route, make it feel personal, write a little note explaining what the funds will go toward, whether it’s a dream trip to Italy or an emergency pizza fund. A Venmo QR code at the wedding gives people who forgot a gift to send some cash easily! 

6. Register Early and Keep It Updated

A good rule of thumb? Set up your registry as soon as you announce your engagement. People will want to send engagement gifts, and having a registry ready makes it easy for them. Plus, update it as you go, things sell out, and you might realize you need to add more options as gifts get purchased.

7. Think About Longevity

While it’s fun to add trendy items, think about gifts that will stand the test of time. High-quality cookware, durable furniture, and timeless decor pieces are things you’ll be grateful for years down the road. On the flip side, if an item feels like a passing fad, maybe skip it.

8. Consider Charitable Giving

For couples who already have everything they need, why not include a charitable donation option on your registry? Many platforms allow you to choose a cause you care about so your guests can contribute in your honor. It’s a beautiful way to spread love beyond just your wedding day.

9. Have Fun With It!

This is YOUR wedding registry, so don’t be afraid to add things that make you smile. Board games for future game nights? A year’s worth of your favorite hot sauce? A customized neon sign with your last name? Why not?! If it makes you happy, put it on the list.

At the end of the day, your wedding registry is about starting your new life together in a way that reflects who you are as a couple. So take a deep breath, enjoy the process, and remember, whether you end up with a fancy stand mixer or a hilarious gag gift, the most important thing is that you’re getting married to your favorite person. And that’s the best gift of all. Schedule a tour today! Find us on facebook, instagram, and tiktok for more wedding planning tips!